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The Business of Rage
Are you finding yourself in a bit of a rage by some things you see on social media? If you're like me, you've been trying to up your quiet time as a way of dealing with the 'low boil' that I experience about the mean spiritedness that is so prevalent. "Breathe. Focus. Don't engage." Really, dont't engage because those angry responses can generate as much as $150,000 a year for someone.

Michele
Aug 293 min read


In A BANI World Follow The Shepherd
In my blog to leaders, I wrote about living in a BANI world. Normally that is a discussion that I have with workplace leaders, but a conversation I had this week prompted me to write about it here, in my personal blog. BANI is the acronym used to describe the current state of the world. It was coined by Jamais Cascio, and introduced in 2018 (before COVID or much of the other drama we have experienced). The letters of BANI stand for Brittle, Anxious or Anxiety-Producing, Non-l

Michele
Aug 153 min read


Navigating Uncertainty: Discovering What Comes Next with Clarity
In a world filled with constant change and unpredictability, the question of "what comes next" often looms large. Whether in personal...

Michele
Aug 152 min read


Person-ality & Reputation
In my work, the conversations I have often turn to how a leader or individual can create a better image or reputation in their workplace. These conversations are necessary, because how one shows up in a situation will determine perceptions (accurate or not) about their leadership and personality. If a leader gains a reputation of being unpredictable or ill-equipped in stressful times, it could hinder their ability to build trust among their team(s).

Michele Aikens
Aug 123 min read


Characteristics of Integrity
“The integrity of the upright guides them, but the unfaithful are destroyed by their duplicity.” Proverbs 11:3 NIV Like an unsound...

Michele
Aug 42 min read


To Fear or Not To Fear: The Scary Question
There is a lot happening in the world that can be scary. If you get information from social media, you may even be influenced by AI-generated media. Much of what we see and hear is designed to generate fear. There, I've said it.
Although there is reason for concern and vigilance when we consider the mindsets behind changes in our world, how you respond will make the difference between sleepless nights and a joyful life. Yes, joy is still possible, even in turmoil.

Michele
Jul 242 min read


Expand Your Gaze
When I first found myself needing a new career in 2009, I was stuck. I had always identified myself by the work I did, and when circumstances changed, I realized how much my identity was tied into my work. I was still a wife, mother, Believer and more, but that all-important identifier, "What do you do?" had been displaced.

Michele
Jul 153 min read


Nurturing What Matters
So imagine my surprise, as I looked at the latest lily plant and thought, "It's going to die,"when Holy Spirit asked, "So, you don't believe

Michele
May 242 min read


Burdens, Boundaries & Brilliance: In Celebration of Women
The woman that we came through had her own burdens: maybe it was financial struggles, or emotional challenges. Maybe her burden was the frustration of giving up her dream to raise children (that’s a real one), or maybe her burden was the relationships she chose. No matter how great your mother was, or how bad she was at the job of mothering, consider how her burdens impacted you.
You also have burdens you have picked up on your journey.The new bags are in addition to the ones

Michele Aikens
Apr 105 min read


Peace On Earth
Does your inner world mirror the outside world? According to anthropologist and futurist, Jamais Cascio , we have transitioned from a...

Michele
Dec 13, 20243 min read


How to Identify Effective Sales Pitches: Catching the Winners and Throwing Back the Rest
But what do I really need? That is for me to discover in my time of quiet meditation, where I ask myself the hard questions I might be...

Michele Aikens
Oct 23, 20242 min read


Back To Normal: Too Busy For Me
"... it appears that 'getting back to normal' is getting back to the normalcy of self-neglect in favor of work or other systems."

Michele Aikens
Oct 22, 20243 min read


Why Haven't You Done It? Exploring 3 Common Roadblocks to Achieving Goals
Setting a goal is just the first step – the real magic happens when you break it down into actionable steps.

Michele Aikens
Oct 7, 20242 min read


Needful Things?
"Let no one say when he is tempted, “I am tempted by God”; for God cannot be tempted by evil, nor does He Himself tempt anyone. 14 But...

Michele
Aug 27, 20243 min read


Are You Overwhelmed By Busyness?
Ironically, our attempts to make up time for things we wished we had done, create the same stress for the future.

Michele Aikens
Jun 24, 20243 min read


Offensively Defensive
Whether at work, home or somewhere in between, check in with yourself to determine where your responses or reactions are coming from.

Michele Aikens
Apr 15, 20244 min read
From Distraction To Destiny
Why do some pursue destiny while others live lives of distraction?

Michele Aikens
Apr 8, 20241 min read


Are You Hungry Enough?
"My food," said Jesus, "is to do the will of him who sent me and to finish his work." (John 4:34 NIV) This scripture passage goes beyond...

Michele
Mar 16, 20242 min read


Why We're Comfortable Telling Elmo We Aren't Well
"The Internet is Trauma-Dumping Elmo". At first, I chuckled, "that's what you get for asking, Elmo." But then I stopped laughing.

Michele Aikens
Feb 1, 20242 min read


Addressing "New Year's Anxiety"
Happy New Year! As we engage in this month of motivation, I want to bring up a subject that most of us would rather navigate around than...

Michele Aikens
Jan 3, 20243 min read
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